Prices continue to rise. People are searching for ways to cut costs to keep their heads above the water line. I clip coupons and scan the paper for sales in an effort to keep food costs down. Our pharmacy sends emails with specials on coffee and cosmetics, which I try to follow up on. As it happens, I needed a few things from the pharmacy yesterday, but only had one coupon appropriate for what I was buying. Putting my items in the basket I went to the front of the store to check out. Because of the holiday weekend, all lines were busy. Being in no particular hurry, I chose a line and got behind the last shopper. The woman in front of me had an extremely full cart, but other lines were equally backed up so I stayed put. Luck being what it is, the woman turned out to be an extreme couponer. In the kiddie seat beside her purse was a bulging notebook. Standing at the register it flipped open to reveal page after page of plastic sleeves filled with coupons. Each section was tabbed and in her hand she held a stack of coupons about 3″ high. I’m not lying here. Naturally, each coupon had to scanned. Some were good. Some were not. I knit a sweater, wrote the great American novel, and took a class on Spanish as a second language while waiting for her receipt to print. In the end, she paid about $6.00 for the overflowing basket and went on her way. I bought some hair mousse and two twelve-packs of toilet paper. Handing over thirty dollars and one $.50 off coupon, I received enough change in return to purchase a pack of breath mints.

I wish I had the time, patience, and energy to collect and categorize all those coupons. Really I do. I admire the tenacity, but question the resources. My life doesn’t have the bandwidth to include the hours it must take to amass such a collection. Not only do you have to obtain the coupons in the first place, but you have to sort by like coupons, file them, and travel about to appropriate places to use them. Also, they go out of date fairly quickly. You would have to go through periodically and throw out the ones already past their use date. Ach.

Bartering though, is another concept for cutting costs I’m toying with. For example, my dear friend Louise and I barter every six weeks in a manner of speaking. While living in our previous home, Louise was the first friend I made when we moved to that area, also my hairdresser. When we moved, Louise sort of came with me. Every six weeks she travels here to touch up my hair. In exchange I make her a fabulous meal, provide her with her favorite adult beverage, and, if she has the time, offer my downstairs guest bedroom for the night cooking her breakfast in the morning before she leaves. This gives her a night away in the tall trees, provides us a chance to catch up on our lives, and leaves me root free for another six weeks. Works beautifully for us.

With this in mind I came up with an idea. I know. Please write down the date. It may not happen again for another decade or two. I had a large computer monitor I wanted out of my craft room. We defer to our laptop these days for everything so it was just gathering dust. I ran an ad to sell it on Craig’s List with no takers. I reduced the price to nearly free. Still no response. This is a very nice monitor, practically new. Hmmmmm. So, I came up with an idea. I needed a few bushes and tree limbs trimmed. I posted the monitor under free stuff at no cost with one caveat. Whoever claimed it needed to trim my trees and bushes. Having no idea how this would work I hit “publish” and went on my way. My phone and my email lit up with responses. Actually I had to remove the ad to make it stop. A student at Sac State was the first to respond.

Our student arrived about two hours later. I handed him the trimmers. In about an hour he did a nice job on the yard, piling the trimmings in my trash can. In exchange, I handed him the monitor and after mutual nods of appreciation he went on his way. This was an idea I can embrace. Sort of a win/win.

This is not the first time I have dabbled in bartering. I have swapped my artwork for services in the past, and have used my writing skills in exchange for goods a time or two. Bartering is certainly not a new concept, dating back to prehistoric days. Perhaps a warm pelt was exchanged for a willing bride, or meat for the best cave to wait out the winter in.

I will try this again. It allowed me to help out a student needing a desk, and it helped me to get rid of the tree limbs encroaching on my driveway. Yea.

This dressing leans toward the sweet. I’ve always called it sugar salad. The dressing should be made the day before for the best results. Yummy.

3Sweet and Sour Salad

2 hearts of romaine, chopped
3 green onions, sliced thin
1/3 cup green bell pepper, sliced in strips
1/3 cup orange bell pepper, sliced in strips
8 radishes, sliced thin

Poppy Seed Dressing

1/2 cup granulated sugar
6 Tbsp. white vinegar
2 1/2 Tbsp. vegetable oil
1 garlic clove, minced
1 Tbsp. minced onion
1/2 tsp. dry mustard
1/4 tsp. hot paprika
1/2 tsp. salt
1/4 tsp. black pepper
2 1/2 tsp. poppy seeds

Whisk together all ingredients. Refrigerate 24 hrs. for best results. Toss with salad ingredients just before serving.

Between Rick and I we share four children. These four have produced nine grandchildren. I know. Four boys and five girls in all. Of the girls, one daughter and one granddaughter have a real affinity for ink. The tattoos began as experimental I think. A small rose here, a delicate heart there. Now they’ve progressed like the urban sprawl covering larger and larger areas of available acreage. The artwork is genuinely to be praised. Amazingly detailed, with vibrant colors and clever design.

The ladies in question are young. Blessed with beautiful smooth young skin. A natural canvas upon which an artist can create. Unfortunately, as with all of us these bodies are in a state of flux. As the years pass, skin loses its elasticity. Even with the most tender loving care and expensive lotions and creams they insist on withering and wrinkling like an apple left too long in the sun. I can’t help but wonder what happens to tattoos during this transition.

Back in the 80’s I worked with a female executive. Linda was a very attractive woman in her mid-thirties. With a reputation as a powerhouse, she led her minions with a firm hand. Quite a feat in those days, particularly in an engineering company a venue long dominated by a strong male presence. Beautiful clothes were her hallmark. I used to wonder at where she stored all the accessories and shoes on display. Even on the hottest summer days, however, a jacket or cover up always accompanied her outfit. I knew she worked out because we had gone together on several occasions. Even on the treadmill a long-sleeved shirt was pulled on over her workout pants. Hmmmmmm.

Two years into our working arrangement we established a sort of friendship outside of work. Not best buddies, but we hung out on occasion, stopping off for a glass of wine after a long day or grabbing lunch every other week or so. As our friendship deepened, Linda’s story naturally unfolded. She hailed from a blue-collar family, very white bread. Her father, given the task of watching over four girls, took his job very seriously. Linda didn’t take easily to all the rules and restrictions. At eighteen instead of heading off to college as was written in her parent’s playbook, she chose to run with a local motorcycle club. In particular a twenty-something rider with cascading hair affectionately known as Blade. I remember his name because you just don’t come across that many Blades in a lifetime, so when you do the name tends to stick with you. (No pun intended.) During these wild and unproductive years she found herself quite drunk one Saturday night. While in this state she chose tattoos for both upper arms and one for her lower back now referred to as a “tramp stamp”. Back then tattoos were mainly the craze in military personnel, fringe groups, and motorcycle types.

Over the next few months the tattoos came to life. Well suited for the lifestyle she was living at the time, as relationships will do when we are young the shine wore off Blade. Linda left him in her rear view mirror and moved on. Replacing leathers for jeans and tees she headed off to college to jump start her education. On one arm off the shoulder it read “Rider from Hell” above a cutoff clad female biker on a bike. On the other arm, “Born to be Bad” was inscribed above a heart with crossbones. I don’t know what was on her lower back. Didn’t know her that well. At any rate, as well accepted as these were by the Harley set, in an upscale college environment they were more of a conversation starter. Worse yet they set the tone for how she got treated at parties or on dates. Clasping her degree on graduation day preparing to let herself loose on the interview circuit, the tattoos were not going to be her foot in the door.

Hiding them for interviews, it became necessary to continue to conceal them as she moved up the corporate ladder. I suppose tattoos are well accepted in most environments nowadays. I’m still not sure I can picture them in the boardroom, but that too may be changing.

I’ve mentioned before I’ve thought of getting one myself a time of two. My choices would be small and most likely placed for easy coverup. I do admire the beautiful workmanship and support the girls choices to do what they choose to do with their bodies. Can’t help but wondering how they’ll feel about it down the road a piece. Being grownups I’m sure they’ll deal with it as it comes along.

As an aside the dogs in our neighborhood seem to have all lost their minds simultaneously howling and carrying on endlessly. Makes me wonder if it’s associated with the recent earthquake and aftershocks in Napa. We didn’t feel the earth move, but friends in the Bay Area certainly did.

This is a really meaty and delicious version of good old tomato soup, which I love with either a light salad or a gooey grilled cheese sandwich.

Meaty Tomato Pepper Soup

1 lb. ground chuck
1 onion, chopped
1/2 cup green bell pepper, chopped
1/2 cup orange bell pepper, chopped
2 15 1/2 oz. cans diced tomatoes, with juice
2 6 oz. cans tomato sauce
3 1/2 cups chicken broth
1/2 tsp. Worcestershire sauce
1 cup cooked corn
1 Tbsp. taco seasoning mix, hot
1 tsp. basil
1/2 tsp. garlic powder
1/4 tsp. onion powder
2 bay leaves
1 tsp. salt
1/2 tsp. black pepper
1 1/2 cups cooked brown rice

Brown ground meat over med.-high heat in stockpot until browned. Drain on paper towels. Return to skillet. Add bell peppers and onions. Cook until onion is translucent over med. heat.

Add remaining ingredients except rice to pot. Cover and simmer for 45 mins. or until peppers are tender.

Ladle soup into bowls with 1/4 cup rice on bottom.

Serves 6.


I spent a good part of yesterday sitting in the doctor’s office. Well, lying down in the doctor’s office, to be more accurate. In my usual accident prone way I managed to take what should have been a quick look out the front door at a couple of baby deer and stretch it into a major production. Rick knocked on the living room window pointing toward the door. Opening it slightly to see what he needed I was to look to my left. Two very tiny deer were making short work of some recently liberated shoots on my azalea bush. So tiny and dear, or deer, whatever the case, I couldn’t bring myself to be too angry even if they were consuming my landscaping. We stood and watched them for a bit until mother came and moved them along to the next yard. Turning to go back inside, I absently ran my hand down the side of the door. Apparently, there was a long splinter of wood looking for a hand to insert itself in. Mine proved to be the perfect host. Wow, that hurt. Totally surprised to find myself in pain trying to close the door, I was even more surprised to see a large piece of it protruding from my palm.

Rick totally freaked out, letting loose of Lecture 47 from his 2014 Lecture Series on why I need to watch what I’m doing lest I do not make it to my next birthday. Directing his attention to my now throbbing hand, he pulled the spear out leaving half still imbedded beneath my skin. OW! Damn, I’m sure that’s not how that was supposed to go. Remind me not to frequent this facility again.

For a person who loathes going to the doctor, I seem to be spending a lot of time there of late. Deciding to ignore the problem and see if the splinter fairy might appear during the night and remove it, I went to bed. Disappointingly in the morning the offending object was still in place and my hand was starting to look upset about the situation. Reluctantly I put a call into my doctor. No same day appointments were available. What do people do anymore when they’re sick? I do suppose my splinter wasn’t exactly the highest priority on their patient list. The receptionist suggested I go to the urgent care clinic down the road from them.

Going to a new doctor’s office is, if possible, more annoying than going to one already familiar with your frailties. A book of paperwork is handed to you on a clipboard and you’re asked to recall your medical history, your families medical history, your allergies, surgeries, affairs, positions you’ve been fired from, and recent felony convictions. By the time you’re done they have more information on you than your mother is privy to.

Urgent care is done on a walk-in basis. A good rule of thumb on figuring how long you’ll be there is to count the heads sitting in the lobby as you enter. Figure at least 15-20 minutes apiece and that is approximately how long you’ll be reading your book before hearing your name called by a nurse. Five people in front of me and two hours later, I was shown to an examination room.

The staff was a lovely group, all very friendly and welcoming. They have such cute scrubs these days. When I was a dental assistant they were white and quite unattractive. They’d just begun to show some colorful uniforms with designs before I left the field.

Shortly, the doctor came in. Ladies I must admit the splinter was worth the floor show. If all doctors looked like this gentleman, the wait would be 6-8 hours minimum. Smile. As nice as he was attractive he said he would have to remove the splinter and give me a tetanus shot. Oh goody.

A nurse followed with enough equipment to do a set up for a heart transplant. It’s a splinter. I don’t need a set-up really. A pair of pliers should suffice. She explained they’d have to numb the area and then perform the removal in a sterile environment lest I contract an infection. Looking for an exit, Dr. Eye Candy returned. Gently taking my hand in his gave me an injection directly in heart of my palm. He became far less attractive as the syringe depressed. With all the advances in technology couldn’t they either knock you out for absolutely everything, or invent something that numbs the area by simply hovering above the spot? Someone get to work on this.

After some maneuvering the splinter came out. Life is good. The doctor told me to hang tight until the nurse came with the tetanus booster and to bandage my hand. Left alone in a prone position with a long week behind me my eyes closed. About an hour and a half later I was awakened by a nurse who was apologizing for forgetting me. Apparently everybody had gone to lunch and left me on the table. That’s fine. I had an excellent nap. I suggested they install a mini-bar for such occasions as I was hungry and was offered a delicious blueberry muffin before being sent on my way.  On the way out I noticed the office plants were doing very well. Always a good sign according to Erma.

So, I have a big bandage for a small incision, and thankfully medical insurance because I’m sure all that prep came dearly. Another day in the life.

In an effort to keep frying at a minimum, I created this delicious alternative to stove top prepared home fries.

Oven Baked Home Fries

3 large red potatoes, sliced in 1/2″ slices
2 medium onions, sliced thin
4 thin slices red bell pepper
4 thin slices green bell pepper
2 cloves garlic, minced
2 Tbsp. olive oil
1/8 tsp. red pepper flakes
1 tsp. dried basil
1 Tbsp. parsley flakes
1/2 tsp. black pepper
1/2 tsp. salt
1/4 tsp. garlic salt
1/2 cup Mexican style cheese, shredded

Preheat oven to 400 degrees.

Spray 9″ square pan with cooking spray. Place all ingredients but cheese in large bowl. Cover and toss well to coat.

Line in three rows in pan alternating vegetables as you go.

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Seal tightly with tin foil. Bake for 30 mins. Remove cover. Increase oven temperature to 450 degrees. Bake for 20 mins. Remove from oven and sprinkle cheese over top. Return to oven for 10 mins. or until cheese is melted.

Add additional salt and pepper as desired.


It’s hard to believe it’s time for kids to go back to school. It seems to happen more quickly then when I was hitting the books. From what I understand this is due to more in-session time off due to teacher conferences and the like. As much as I looked forward to summer vacation as a kid, I believe my parents anticipated the resumption of school with equal enthusiasm.

There was a news item yesterday about a young boy, seven I believe, whose parents allow him to stay home by himself for short periods time as a form of exercising his independence. Seven seems young to a lot of people, certainly it would have to my parents. Being a latchkey kid, both my parents worked outside of the home.  Up until sixth grade this required hiring somebody during the summer months to keep me from giving in to my own inner demons and getting in a pile of kid-type trouble. The summer between fourth and fifth grade we resided in Southern California. After interviewing several applicants, Hilde, a German immigrant, was engaged for the position. Hilde’s personality would have served her well on a chain gain.  She encouraged no insubordination, and when confronted with bad behavior didn’t hesitate to get the wooden spoon out of the drawer and threaten to use it. Never during that three months we shared together did she actually use the spoon, but I wasn’t fully convinced she wouldn’t, which made it equally as effective.

Food usually being my main concern, that summer it became more so. Hilde leaned towards her German ancestry when it came to food.  Many of the foods appearing on my lunch menu I’d never seen before. Growing up in Nova Scotia there wasn’t a lot of knackwurst included in my diet. Perhaps I couldn’t pronounce what I was eating, but I learned to love the flavors and tastes she added to my relatively limited palette at that time in my life. Knodel, or German dumplings, ranked among my favorites. Bratkartoffeln, fried potatoes and onion with side meat was wonderful as well, although occasionally it was served atop a large piece of fried liver which sent me screaming from the room.

Hilde loved American television. Once I had been fed, she would sit before the television and watch All My Children while eating her lunch. A woman equally as tall as she was wide, she enjoyed her food and didn’t subscribe to thin American women, who she viewed with open suspicion. Lunch for Hilde consisted of huge slabs of bread filled with liverwurst or a bratwurst slathered with hot mustard. German potato salad or a side of sauerkraut usually accompanied the meal washed down with a large glass of German beer. Several times she tried to insinuate liverwurst into my diet, but I remained then and now immune to the siren song of the organ meat.

Each day after lunch Hilde tied on her hat and we went for a brisk walk. We probably logged in a mile or two out and back on these expeditions keeping me from packing on the poundage with all the delicious streudels and the like paraded past my overzealous eyes while she was keeping an eye on me.

In the evenings when my parents arrived, Hilde straddled her bicycle and pedaled the five miles in between our house and hers. She had never owned a car she told me. Didn’t want one. In her small village, the name of which left me years ago, cars were a luxury few but the rich could afford. Coming from a farming family, she was not a fancy human being. Clothing was chosen for functionality rather than fashion, and her thick shoes sensible if definitely not eye catching. Never married, at least up until that time, and with all her “people” in the old country, I felt she might have been glad for my company that summer.

My mother, a slave to fashion, felt Hilde needed some sprucing up to catch a man. Mother felt every woman should have one, Hilde being no exception. Asking her to stay on one evening beyond her usual quitting time, Mother did Hilde’s hair. Having nothing in her own closet close to the appropriate size she suggested a shopping spree one weekend to help Hilde select some more up-to-date styles for her closet. The tight buns and coiled braids I’d come to identify with Hilde were soon replaced with a softer look and before long she began to hum when making lunch in the kitchen.

I saw Hilde on many occasions after school reconvened that year, the most memorable being her wedding. Ours being the only “family” she had in the States we were there for moral support, or so my mother told my step-father. The groom, a man also as wide as he was tall, was also of German descent and called me “Leibling” at the reception. I wanted to tell him my name was Susie, but my mother pinched me and nodded her head so I kept my mouth shut.

Hilde comes to mind as school reconvenes every year. She gave me an introduction to delicious German cuisine I wouldn’t otherwise have had and a look into a culture that is also included in my family tree.

This chilled soup is quick to assemble and oh so refreshingly good.

Avocado and Cucumber Soup

1 large avocado, seeded and peeled
1 English cucumber
1/2 cup sour cream
1/16 tsp. onion powder
Generous pinch cayenne pepper
1 tsp. minced garlic
1 Tbsp. freshly squeezed lemon juice
1 Tbsp. chopped chives
1 1/4 cups chicken broth

Cut avocado in quarters and place in bottom of food processor. Peel cucumber and cut in half lengthwise. Use spoon to scoop out seeds. Cut each half in half again and place in food processor. Add remaining ingredients and process until smooth.

Serve cod topped with chopped chives.

Serves 4.

1Did you hear about the man who sat on hold with the cable company for three and half hours only to find out they’d closed? Ah, customer service at its best. There’s another story circulating about yet another guy who was totally bullied by a cable company representative while attempting to close his account and go with another cable provider. I had a similar experience with Social Security. I was on hold so long I finally put the phone on speaker and went about my day. After about an hour and a half I discovered the office had closed leaving only the recorded music to keep me company.

I think of this because I found myself once again standing in line at one of the major markets in the area yesterday trying to check out 15 items or less. It was some sort of special Friday in the store so there were more people milling about the aisles then is usual. Along the front of the store is a line of about a dozen or more check out lanes, two of which had their light’s lit. Shoppers were backed up five to a lane and the grumbling had begun by the time I pushed my cart behind several others in line. Besides the items I had just placed in the cart I was returning a bottle of orange juice purchased two days prior. The use by date I noticed after getting it home was over thirty days out of date. My other half is constantly pushing me to check dates before loading an item in the cart but as I actually have a full life there isn’t always time to inspect every item. If this is my job, then I’ll look forward to getting paycheck sometime in the near future with the grocery store label printed on the top. Since the price of everything has gone up so dramatically I make it a point to return out of date or bad goods and exchange them or get my money back. Five dollar is five dollars. Since I don’t seem to be able to exit the market under $100, every little bit helps. I pointed out to the clerk that the entire supply of this brand of juice had the same date printed on it. He looked at me with the same enthusiasm he might show his wife if she announced her mother was moving into the spare room. Fine.

Cleaning products were on my list. They all seem to run out at the same time. My mother is coming up in September so it’s time to actually move the furniture and clean underneath it rather than flit around it and pretend I did. Rick is taking the cat and going to a hotel. It drives him straight up the wall when I do this. He informed me it is most annoying to have someone rushing about dragging a vacuum hose and spraying noxious sprays around his head. Not to burst his bubble but if you are to clean the house, you have to CLEAN THE HOUSE.  Believe me if a way to could be found to circumvent the actual cleaning process and do something more fulfilling a woman would have invented it by now.  He has an annoying habit or two himself, but I shall refrain from starting a list. After fourteen years together we accept that neither of us is perfect. Expectations carried into the relationship early on have long since been tossed out the window replaced by more realistic ones now in place.

I come from a long line of clean women. My maternal grandmother was up with the roosters at 6:00 a.m. every morning. Breakfast was eaten and the first cup of tea poured by 7:00. By 7:30 the breakfast dishes were washed and drying in the faded wooden dish rack. A slim woman by any standards, Gammy, as we grandchildren referred to her, wasn’t one to spend a lot of effort on breakfast during the week days. A prolific baker, several slices of her scrumptious homemade wheat bread usually found their way to her plate. Lightly toasted, the buttery slices were spread with tangy orange or lime marmalade from her pantry. Fruit always plentiful at our table, this might by a crisp rosy apple with a piece of ripe cheddar cheese. A bit of a clothes horse, as is my mother, my grandmother had a closet full of lovely outfits to choose from if going out for the day. When home on cleaning days, however, house dresses designed purely for function rather than looks, went on over underclothes. The dresses were designed for the express purpose of comfort and disposability easily replaced if soiled. They came in a variety of patterns printed on cotton. Some were covered with tea pots, others chickens, or apples, most faded from frequent trips to the washing machine. The tubular gowns started at the shoulders and dropped straight down to just below the knee. Snaps were sewn in at the appropriate spots for easy on and off maneuvering. Certainly they were not designed with attracting anything but dust if memory serves me. As a girl, I can picture my grandmother feather duster in hand making short work of the silty layers gathered on the myriad of knickknacks perfect as a gathering spot. Mementos of her life and those who came before her were scattered liberally throughout the old family home. Many of these have since come to live in my house and I too spend much time keeping the dust as bay with equal love and concern.

As with the women before me in my family I do most of the housework. Time Magazine, I think it was, did a study on this a while back. According to the results men have stepped up in this regard but still can’t catch up to their female counterparts when it comes to helping out around the house or tending to their offspring. I think men wrote the book on this subject back in the beginning and weren’t all that disappointed about how the story went. As with the old southern expression, “don’t fix it if it ain’t broke”. My ex often commented “I’d rather take a beating then do dishes”. Hmmmm. Never mind. Once after I had surgery on my toe he used the vacuum. I took a picture, blew it up, and framed it. It hung on our den wall for the duration of our marriage as I knew it wasn’t likely I’d ever see such a phenomenon again. Both my children went on to marry spouses who pitch in and help carry the load at home so things are changing as the new generations come up the ladder.

This light dinner was perfect for a warm summer night. In and out of the oven in a minute and delicious going down. I’ve become a big fan of cooked grapes and with the blue cheese absolutely wonderful! I make one pizza per person as they disappear quickly.

Blue Cheese and Grape Lavash Pizzas with Blue Cheese Dipping Sauce

4 slices lavash
3-4 Tbsp. olive oil
1 cup cherry tomatoes, halved
1 cup fresh spinach, sliced thin
6 large basil leaves, sliced thin
6 slices Genova Salame (thin), sliced in 1/2″ slices widthwise
4 large mushrooms, sliced thin
1/2 cup red onion, sliced thin
1/2 green pepper, seeded and sliced thin
1/2 yellow pepper, seeded and sliced thin
12 purple grapes, halved
4 oz. blue cheese, crumbled
1 cup Italian cheese blend, shredded
Sliced black olives as desired
Freshly ground black pepper

Preheat oven to 450 degrees.

Cover cookie sheets with tin foil and spray foil with cooking spray. Brush the top of each lavash with olive oil.

Layer in order listed distributing ingredients over the top of all four slices as evenly as possible. Dust with black pepper. Cook for 6-8 mins. or until crust is browned. Watch carefully. Slice and serve with dipping sauce.

1Blue Cheese Dipping Sauce

4 oz. crumbled blue cheese
1/3 cup plain yogurt
1 Tbsp. mayonnaise
1/3 cup cream
1/8 cup 2% milk
1 tsp. Worcestershire sauce
1 tsp. hot sauce
1 tsp. parsley flakes

Mix all ingredients and refrigerate until ready to use.

2 On the news a week or so ago they showed photos of an accident involving a Coca Cola which had crashed into a into a fish market. The market, a lovely old brick establishment, was damaged to the point of having to be demolished. After the dust settled it was determined the truck driver lost control of his truck due to a wasp flying about the cab.  I feel his pain. Truly I do. So many times I’ve written about my irrational fear of the little buggers thus not to make light of a serious situation, I can totally understand the mans anguish.

Looking back I’ve had many bad experiences when an insect flew in the car. In West Virginia my ex-husband and I were traveling down the freeway towards Charleston on a lovely spring day. Weather being glorious we had the windows down allowing the lovely spring air to circulate through the car. A bee the size of a small rodent flew in the passenger side window and buzzed around my head. Never before nor since have I see a honey bee the size of that one. Perhaps it had morphed due to all the chemicals emanating from the plants puffing away along the Kanawha River but whatever the reason it was flying about my face and didn’t appear to be in an amicable mood. My bee-fear kicked in full force and before I realized it more of my body was outside of the window than remained inside the car. At that point my husband began yelling for me to get in but I had totally lost it so was reduced to pointing and repeating “GET IT” at ever accelerating decibels. At that point it moved to my husband’s face and for the first time since I’d known him I saw him react to an insect. Swatting it about, the car began to weave slightly. People had begun to notice and traffic around us granted us a wide berth. Finally, he picked up a road map and the bee was to bee no more.

Last night as if prophetically predicted by the earlier writing of the first paragraph of this blog, I had a visitor. My other half was off having his sleep apnea observed at a local sleep center so the cat and I were reading in the bedroom. Actually I was reading, she was only turning the pages. Suddenly she sat up and began looking at the ceiling. Being human, after observing this behavior for a few minutes I too had to look up. Should have kept my nose in my book. Above my head as still as a southern morning hung a large brown spider. Sigh. With no knight to rely on paper cup and newspaper in hand I had only the cat, who avoided my eyes when asking for volunteers. Now there were two plans of action as I saw it. Either I ignore the beast in the hope it would slink away during the night or simply remain in place, or I could get up and do something about it. Tired from my day, I decided to take my chances and go with Plan A. Eying the bug from below I had the distinct feeling the arachnid was keeping his sights on us as well and deciding his plan of action. “Should I sneak down, climb under the covers and crawl along her goose bumps, or simply land on the human’s face and ensure an immediate stroke?”

Looking back on the day, it hadn’t begun on good footing. Getting an early start I hit two grocery stores and the pharmacy before the little hand was on ten. Rushing around the house I quickly stored the food in the cupboards and the fridge and headed downstairs to grab a shower and wash my hair. At 12:00 I was due at the fitness center for an orientation on the dreaded exercise machines. This was the second time I’d made arrangements so I wanted to get there on time so as not to appear a total flake. Brand clean I checked my appointment schedule to see if it was 12:00 or 12:15 I was due to arrive. Opening to the page it read “Fitness Center – 10:00 – Tammy”. Damn. Guess the ship had already sailed on the flake issue before I even opened the book. Dialing the number I’d noted I explained to Tammy, undoubtedly perfectly toned and lithe, that I had thought the appointment later than it was and needed to reschedule. In her book it probably read “Tues. – 11:00 – Susie N. – flake”.

It’s funny if you’ve got problems chewing on your mind, they seem to present themselves after the sun has set. Several of our offspring are going through some personal issues. No matter how old your children get their problems continue to fall under your umbrella and it is difficult to see them struggle even if they’ve long claimed themselves as adults on their tax returns. Sooooo, the spider, the cat, and I lay awake long into the night sharing space but not bothering one another. It is strange how the company of something living can make the house seem less empty. My mind busily sorted through this scenario and then that one, processing and troubleshooting. At one point I asked my busy brain if it might not be time for sleep, but apparently taking the phrase “having a mind of my own” literally, it went on tossing and turning until finally my eyelids, too tired to remain open, shut and sleep came.

I cannot say I’m refreshed, but the kitties were glad to see me at the shelter this morning and I didn’t fall asleep on the job. It’s a gorgeous day more worthy of early fall or spring than mid-summer and I’m enjoying it. The spicy aromas of chili cooking in the crockpot are floating in the air and all in all it’s a good day to be alive!

Question for those of you WordPress bloggers reading this. I lost the toggle bar on the inside of my post. Now I seem to be getting a different look while editing. Anybody know what I pushed that I shouldn’t have??

Slow Cooked Chili Beans and Rice with Sausage

1 lb. lean ground beef
1 onion, chopped
1 green pepper, diced
1/2 yellow bell pepper diced
2 cloves garlic, minced
1 15 1/2 oz. can stewed tomatoes
1 15 oz. can chili beans, with sauce
2 15 oz. cans red kidney beans, drained and rinsed
1/2 – 1 can Ro-Tel tomatoes (heat factor)
2 cups water
2 6 oz. cans tomato sauce
1 tsp. Worcestershire sauce
3 Tbsp. chili powder
1 tsp. ground cumin
1 tsp. dried basil
1/2 tsp. smoked paprika
1/2 tsp. salt
1/2 tsp. black pepper
1 Polska kielbasa, sliced in 1″ slices
2 cups cooked rice
Avocado slices
Sour cream
Cheddar cheese
Chopped red onion

Brown ground beef, onion, and peppers over med-high heat until meat is cooked. Add garlic and cook an additional 2 mins. Drain meat mixture on paper towels.

Spray 6 quart slow cooker. Add meat to bottom of cooker. Add all remaining ingredients up to Polska kielbasa. Mix well. Cook on low for 8 hours. Add Polska kielbasa to pan and cook an additional hour.

Cook rice according to package directions.

Place a dollop of rice in bottom of serving bowl. Top with chili and garnish as desired.

Serves 4-6

This particular blog is dedicated to those of you who like myself who have managed to successfully avoid scheduling an appointment for a colonoscopy. Yesterday for me was the big day. Over the past several months I rescheduled my original appointment twice. Something always conveniently came up, mostly my white flag with a huge chicken embossed in the middle of it. Finally I ran out of reasons and excuses and decided rather than having this looming over my head I’d do it and get it over with.

Let me start by saying they give you way too much information to assimilate. Prep begins 5 days prior to the actual procedure by eliminating certain medications like blood thinners out of your daily regimen. Fortunately this didn’t apply to me so I went on to the 3 days prior instructions. Along with the pamphlets provided by your doctor everybody who has every had one of these tosses in a few hints on how to survive it. In the end you will need a wall sized white board and pens of assorted colors to manage the event. A friend’s husband told me when he had his the doctor told him he could watch the proceedings on the screen as they went along. I’d be willing to comply if they handed me a bucket of buttered popcorn but otherwise I’d rather watch reruns of Cheers thank you very much. At any rate, my friend went on to say the next thing he remembered he was sitting in the passenger seat at a stop sign having no idea how he arrived there, who dressed him, or anything that had transpired after the doctor told him he could watch the screen. Sign me up for that experience please. That’s the one I’d like to have.

Day 3 prior to the procedure you begin a soft diet, eliminating our usual plans for dinner and a movie. I’m not wasting a date night on a dollop of mashed potatoes and a couple of soft boiled eggs. Day 3 you have to stop eating anything with seeds such as berries, tomatoes, bananas, etc.  As these are included in my menu daily I sadly deposited the last of my fresh raspberries on top of vanilla ice cream I was serving to my other half.

Day 2 you continue with a lite diet for breakfast and lunch and begin taking on a little extra liquid. The lite diet consists basically of cereal (without seeds) and milk, eggs, white toast, chicken without skin, fish, rice, applesauce etc.

On the day before the procedure I was allowed a small bowl of cereal with milk or poached or boiled eggs, white toast, chicken or fish, and a potato without the skin or a cup of rice and clear liquids. The clear liquids included black coffee, Gator Ade, Jello (no red or purple flavors), apple juice, 7up and on and on …. Apparently if you can read a newspaper through it, it’s clear. Now, why is it I have to drink black coffee but milk is okay in my cereal? Who writes these directions?  Already full of water so the cereal wasn’t sounding good.  My stomach, usually rather flat, had taken on proportions suitable for keeping oneself afloat if thrown overboard.

Have you noticed immediately when you’re told you cannot have something, you want it more than you ever have before? Suddenly I was craving tomatoes, seeds, sigh. Another interesting thought, why no red or purple Jello? Perhaps the colors making it so leave a telltale trail along the way?

At 2:00 in the afternoon I was to discontinue enjoying these delightful menu selections and move on to simply liquids including chicken broth. At the time I didn’t think I’d miss the cereal and boiled eggs, but found out around 7:00 in the evening either was sounding rather good. At 6:00 you down your first dose of the molotov cocktail you get from the pharmacist. The object here is to divest your body of all stored materials which I will not delve further into as I’m sure you get my drift. Then the fun begins. Again you get my drift. Take a book, really.

At 2:00 a.m. you have to wake up and take on another gallon of liquid and repeat the procedure.

Now, I am here to tell you after all that I was still nervous about what was to transpire in the doctor’s office. We arrived at 7:30 and I was quickly taken in to an operating room once I was in a hospital gown. They asked me for my choice of music, finally found a vein as they’re harder to locate when you’re dehydrated, and told me to have a nice nap.  From that point on I remember not one thing until the nurse was standing over me asking me if I’d like a glass of water. Are you kidding? I want an In n Out burger with extra cheese. Water has had its way with me.

Sooooooo, all that worry was for nothing. In the end as I’d been told the worst part of the program is the preparation. Animals are lucky. They feel pain like we do certainly but don’t suffer with the anticipation of pain. I’m so glad this is behind me (no pun intended).

I want to take a moment here to say how much I am going to miss Robin Williams. Not a friend of mine, I didn’t know the man. Although through his work somehow I feel as if he was. Mrs. Doubtfire is a movie I switch on when I’m sad. Dead Poet’s Society is like slipping on a comfortable shoe. Good Will Hunting, well, wonderful. I could go on and on. I first saw him on Happy Days as Mork and was immediately smitten as was the rest of the viewing audience. Always his comic genius and humanity shined through when he performed. Such a quick and wonderfully capricious mind. Our family has been touched by suicide on more than one occasion so I speak with some knowledge on how it feels to be a survivor.  To know you must continue on down the path leaving behind someone you loved who simply hadn’t the strength to complete the journey. Questions often remain unanswered as you move on without them. I wish his family well.

These carrots are simply the best. They almost resemble a sweet potato in their yummy goodness.

Carrots Istanbul

2 lbs. carrots, cut into large chunks
1 clove garlic, minced
2 Tbsp. chives, chopped
2 Tbsp. butter
1/4 tsp. ground coriander
1/4 tsp. paprika
pinch of cayenne pepper
1/2 tsp. ground cumin
1/4 tsp. white pepper
1/4 tsp. salt
1/2 tsp. lemon pepper

Cook carrots in boiling water until tender. Drain and cool slightly. Place all ingredients in food processor and pulse until coarsely processed. Adjust salt and pepper if desired.

Serves 4


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